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Wiskerslilypow
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Wiskerslilypow - Ban Appeal

Hello, it's Wiskerslilypow.

A few years ago, I was banned for engaging in excessive drama with another player. I don't remember her full username by numbers, but it was along the lines of Lollipop. I think I should be unbanned because this was about 2-3 years ago; I was maybe around 10-12 when it was happening. In the past 2-3 years I've grown a lot and put that drama behind me. Over time I've learned having emotional outbursts at people who are completely uninvolved is not the way to cope with an argument. Much less, bursting out at people is not a way to settle an argument in the first place. As such, I believe I deserve a second chance because I was just a hot-headed 12 year-old.

If it helps to put this in here at all, I recently graduated a DBT-based therapy class/group and it helped me a LOT, especially the Interpersonal Effectiveness module. It taught me healthier ways to cope with negative emotions, unhealthy urges, and overall how to pull through bad situations. If you would like more information on the course, look up "ASPIRE IOP" or research Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). If you would like more information, let me know. I have a certificate and everything to prove that I was in the program and that they felt safe enough to let me graduate.

Should I be unbanned, I promise to help build a strong and friendly community. I have a few friends who want to join, too, so it's all the more community to build upon. I really want to try hard to build a friendly community where everyone can feel comfortable this time around. If I break this promise, I will accept full responsibility for my actions.

I hope to see you all again,
Wiskerslilypow.

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Treydun
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Hello Wiskers! 

Hello Wiskers! 
First, let me congratulate you on completing that educational course! I had not heard about it until you mentioned it here. I looked it up and it looks fantastic. I am happy that resources are being provided to those who need them most, our younger generation. 

In reading your appeal it sounds like you have genuinely grown as a person. Our staff agrees that you should have another chance so you are being unbanned. 

Welcome back! We look forward to seeing you on the server.

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Wiskerslilypow
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Thank you!

Thank you so much! I look forward to seeing you all again. 

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